“Every character, every destiny has its own foundation, its own root cause. Some call it heredity or genes, others karma or fate, others simply grieve: “I was born this way.” Indeed, we do not enter adult, independent life under equal conditions. Some are more confident in themselves, capable of loving and forgiving, others are more dependent, weak, anxious and unhappy. And it would be very sad if the reason was in genes or something else that can no longer be changed. In fact, the main thing the reason is in our relationship with our parents. The relationship with our parents determines many of the basic characteristics of our personality. It is these relationships that lay the entire foundation of our future life. No wonder they say that “all our problems come from childhood.” Our happiness is also from there...”