One day, journalists came to visit an old woman who was one hundred years old. It happened in Ukraine. A tiny old lady who already has great-great-grandchildren, who survived the war, famine and all the consequences of the collapse of the USSR. Journalists asked what she remembered most during these hundred eventful years. The old woman burst into tears and answered: “If I’m a good man. You know, what a big deal!” (“When my husband left me. You know what a pain it is!”) But her husband left her with their children 60 years ago! Parting with a loved one is one of the most difficult situations in our lives. Moreover, suffering dooms us to loneliness. And we can suffer, as the example of this grandmother shows, for an indefinitely long time. You should not hope that the pain will go away on its own or that time will heal it. Our healing is in our hands. Who will help us? Unlike a physical illness, you cannot put yourself in the hands of doctors who will make an accurate diagnosis and prescribe pills and injections. You will have to do the bulk of the work here yourself. And we are talking about something invisible. And the pain is stronger than physical...