A person goes through various stages in relationships with the opposite sex. Loneliness, couple, family, love triangle and loneliness again. Why, even after attracting the person we need into our lives, do we not know how to maintain a relationship? And why do we cling to partners when love is gone and the relationship has long outlived its usefulness? What forces lead us, what motivates us and how not to succumb to family scenarios and vicissitudes of fate? These and many other questions can be answered using the famous Bert Hellinger method - family constellations, which psychotherapist Nadezhda Markova uses in her work. Cases from the author's professional practice, exercises, meditations and rituals will help you understand the reasons for what is happening in your life and free yourself from old, non-working, family or ancestral programs.