This book is a literate navigator for a parent that wants to grow the child in independent, valuable personality.Paternal guardianship often interferes with a child not only to understand itself and show talent but also elementaryly to expose the potential in studies, sport and everyday businesses. Gradually, from a head to the head, step by step authors trick into us to the idea: even if you it seems to that your child is not able to accept none correct decision (or even has features - СДВГ, RACES) - it is needed to give a chance to him. For this purpose they offer at the end of every head concrete steps-exercises that can be used already this evening.What, in opinion of authors, does help on a way to child's independence? Basis is this absence of stress. He can be conditioned by a compulsion, hyperguardianship, different fears, features of child etc. In the absence of fear sense of safety, that gives love of parents, good dream, internal motivation, exercises, follows. And, certainly, prosecution of parent of itself and above their new relationships with a child.This methodology has under itself нейропсихологическую basis. The all above-stated really helps correct cerebration of child and forming of frontal stakes responsible for the independent acceptance of decisions, organization and control. A book will be useful to both the parents and all, who works with children, including, with the features of development.In Russian language published first.