Not surprising, that all more parents and professionals profess interest to the theory of the personality development, based on the attachment (theories of attachment) worked out by Gordon Ньюфелдом. In fact she explains exactly, as far as warm relationships are important for psychological prosperity and successful personality development of child with those, who for him is responsible and cares of him. With short description of model of the development based on to attachment, it is possible to become familiar in the brochure of Г. НьюфелдаIn this book destructive influence is examined on the mutual relations of adults and children, that renders competitive attachment to the coevals, when a child begins to listen to the friends more than to the parents, when friends become unquestionable authority, and parents are examined exceptionally, as a hindrance in lives and source of money.Ньюфелд proves that by virtue of the immaturity children are not able to care of each other, provide space for a personality height and absolute acceptance. But exactly herein there is a main task of adults - to give to the child feeling of reliable and safe attachment, feeling, that he is under the reliable wing of paternal love, where no adversities are frightful him. An author is sure that relations must occupy a central place is in education of children. Not "important, that you do or does not do, it is important what relationships for you are with a child", - Gordon Ньюфелд talks.In the examples led by an author, the question mainly is about teenagers, but, undoubtedly, approach is applicable to the children of any age.Therefore, than before parents will become familiar with a book, the more credible they will be able to avoid errors for that then will be to be sorry, and for the decision of that required more forces and to time.Main dignity of book is in that an author not only describes a problem but also offers effective strategies and going near adjusting and maintenance of mutual relations between a parent and child. It is a long-awaited alternative to many books and publications about paternalness, propagandizing to apply the поведенческие techniques of control to the children, reminding дрессуру. Ньюфелд helps parents to recover the natural intuition, to give up ambiguous practices of time-outs or use in educator aims that expensive to the children, against them. In fact following these advices, many parents understood already, that they very well worked in a short prospect, but inflict an enormous damage to the relations.A book first went out in Canada in 2004 and during a few weeks became the national best seller. Since, besides Russian, she was translated into the French, German, Spanish, Hungarian, Portuguese, Japanese, Korean, Swedish, Norwegian and Dutch languages. The first edition of book in Russian language took place in 2012, and drawing made off in the first months. It confirms not only prevalence of problem of alienation of teenagers but also realization the parents of importance of maintenance of relationships with children from the earliest age.

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