They are quarreling again. More screaming, crying or even fighting. Or maybe your child’s teacher or class teacher called you to tell you that he was in conflict with someone again? The first reaction of any parent is to stop the quarrel, punish the culprits (or even all participants) or lecture them on how obedient children should behave. But Daniele Novara, a famous Italian child psychologist, teacher and conflict specialist, thinks differently. And he insists that every parent should reconsider their attitude towards children’s quarrels! Using simple explanations and many examples, the author proves that it is extremely important to give children the opportunity to independently understand a controversial situation. After all, the suppression of children's conflicts by adults and the imposition of reconciliation on them negatively affects the formation of social skills and the ability to build interpersonal relationships. A child's quarrel allows us to realize what is inherent in us by nature: the ability to coexist with each other and at the same time express our dissatisfaction. In addition, the method developed by the author will help parents overcome the worry that by allowing children to quarrel, they are acting incorrectly and that their children may get hurt. This book is the first step to learning how to support your children without resorting to constant tugging, scolding, and without intrusiveness. After all, this is the key to a happy childhood and parenthood.