This is the third book by Albert Safin - writer, psychologist, coach, teacher, business trainer. The whole book is answers to questions. Not the eternal questions of Russian literature, “Who is to blame?” and “What should I do?”, but to those that sometimes spin in the head of the most ordinary person and do not let him sleep at night. Why don’t my loved ones understand me? How do I know if I'm being manipulated? What to say when you don't know what to say? How to understand the reasons for your own failures? Why is my life so difficult? How can I protect my personal boundaries? Where to find the right words so as not to quarrel, but to talk? How to avoid trouble? How to build a partnership? If you have ever asked yourself such questions, then this book is for you. There are no abstract discussions about the philosophical meaning of life, but many practical tools and guides for different life situations. Any problem is just a puzzle that can be solved if you know the solution algorithm. And here in each chapter you will find simple and understandable algorithms. You are free to start using them right away or just get acquainted with them. But rest assured that after reading the book, many questions will no longer be a source of headache for you. And this is its healing power.