In his professional activities, Sergei Eliseev was faced with the fact that many of his consultations were related to problems that were repeated among the majority of visitors. People are different, but the problems are the same. He conventionally called such common problems harbors of life. If there is complete order in the four harbors, then everything is fine with the person: he feels good and is stress-resistant. Peace and comfort help him survive in very difficult situations, filling life with meaning and helping to perk up his spirit. The publication will be useful to everyone who is interested in psychology.