A Book-guide-book will help to go out from the bog of hopeless relations, taking away forces, in space of healthy relations - supporting and warming.In a division "With what we mix up love typical "traps over are brought are ideas, feelings, situations that we perceive as "love, however they tighten us in destructive relations.In the division of "Ljubov - it... actions necessary for development of love and happy are described relations.A book gives a reference-point: what healthy relations, how to create them and how to distinguish love from emotional dependence and other illusions of love.