Эмпатия in our days is the not pleasant adding to development, and inalienable part of success and prosperity of our children. Why children must be sensitive? Foremost, it positively influences on their psychical health and confidence in itself, serves as an inoculation against буллинга, affects on progress and helps to find itself in further life. Эмпатию can and needed to develop. Author of book, teacher-psychologist with the world name, worked out 9-step program of development of child's эмпатии. Following her recommendations, it is possible to improve skills of sensitiveness and mutual understanding in any age.In Russian language published first.