This book would need to be read to all parents. And those, who the easy misunderstanding causes anxiety, and those, who already it was despaired to find common language with children. In her we collected two books in one: "Secret support: attachment in life of child" and "If with a child difficult" are books that can deliver you and your child from the tons of psychological literary garbage.Quite often, becoming adults, we forget that once and were children. In the first part of book, being base on scientific theory of attachment, Ljudmila Петрановская easily and accessible tells about the role of parents on a way to maturing: "As dependence and helplessness grow into maturity"? and "As our do love and caring year by year form in a child secret support on that, how on a bar, his personality" sticks to? you will be able to see that actually stands after child's "whims", "spoiled", "aggression", "harmful by character".In the second part of book Ljudmila will tell about that, how to learn to be oriented in difficult situations, decide conflicts and deserve to go out them. you will be able to understand, what to help the child, that he grew and developed, not spending force on a fight for your love.