What must an ideal mother be? Manuals, books, reasons on the care of child is a great great number, and a modern mother literally sinks at-sea ideas about that, how she must bring up a child. Who to believe, on what road to go? Every mother decides for itself. Only it appears often, that in the choice she follows a not heart and preferences, and advices stuck by someone (by a fashion, surroundings). Authors are books - young mothers, journalist and consulting psychologist, try honestly to understand that disturbs today's women first becoming mothers. They write about that, whether it is possible to combine work and maternity, about the emotional burning down and послеродовой depression, about early development and other perturbing present mothers problems and in passing disperse basic errors, touching life of kid and mother. A book is written easily, with a humour shown to reading to all women that plan to become mothers or they were become already. And also to the dads and grandmothers, that forget often, that a child is not only gladness and pride but also little catastrophe.2th edition (electronic)