After unbelievable success of book "How to talk, that children listened, and how to listen, that children talked" the disturbed parents and teachers from different countries began to send the letters of А. Faber and Э. Мазлиш with a request to write an analogical book about intermingling with teenagers.In the new book authors showed, as, using the famous methodology of commonunication, to find a contact with the children of transitional age, to build with them confidence relations, to talk on such difficult themes, as sex, drugs and defiant original appearance, help them to become independent, to take responsibility for the acts and accept the self-weighted, reasonable decisions.