When I began to explain the phenomena of the reality around me from the point of view of Hellinger's teaching, I gradually discovered that this point of view explained the "explained" and "understood", it would seem, phenomena so more effectively that I chose this method of explanation as the only one for myself possible. In the teachings of Hellinger, I began to find for myself what I had only vaguely guessed about before, and what, as it turned out, I was sorely lacking. When I realized those things that I previously lacked, I decided to share my awareness with readers, who, for sure, also lack a lot, but they still cannot understand what.