"How I lost the primacy" is a fascinating book about teenage self-identification in a world of stereotypes and expectations. The author tells the story of the main character, who found himself at the crossroads of difficult relations with his parents, friends and community. During school competitions and conflicts, the boy learns that it is not always necessary to follow generally accepted norms, and sometimes it is worth acting in accordance with his own beliefs and values. The book encourages readers to think about the importance of their own self-determination and choice in conditions of social pressure. "How I lost the primacy" is an important literary exploration of the path of self-discovery and self-realization in a world that constantly presents a person with difficult tests and choices.