A very serious dad learns to have fun with his little children. The mother of the family gets rid of many years of fears and establishes friendly relations with her mother-in-law. The brothers stop quarreling and competing for their mother's love. And the silent teenager has a heart-to-heart talk with his silent father for the first time. “To love or to educate?” – stories from the practice of child psychologist and popular columnist of the magazine “Snob” Ekaterina Murashova (“Your incomprehensible child”, “Treat or love?”), who has the gift of improving family health not only at the reception, but also with the help of books. Ekaterina Murashova has been nominated three times for the Astrid Lindgren Prize. The new book will help readers understand relationships with loved ones and, if they don’t find an immediate solution to the problem, then at least ask the right question: what’s wrong? And this, you see, is already a lot.