Often something completely obvious, which does not need explanation and is natural for us, turns out to be incomprehensible to our loved ones. If this happens, most likely tacit agreements have come into force. This is what famous clinical psychologists Linda Anderson, Sonya Banks and Michelle Owen call unspoken expectations, beliefs, rules of relationships that we do not voice, believing that they are obvious and understandable to everyone without words. This book will help you figure out what most people really understand, and what needs to be said in order to avoid misunderstandings, what words to choose, and how to make a conversation about tacit agreements both productive and comfortable. It will teach you how to free any relationship from the burden of understatement and will become indispensable for everyone who wants to hear and be heard, understand and find understanding.