This book is part of the general project “On the Pedagogical Wave” of the famous teacher Dima Zitser, the Peter publishing house and the Mayak radio station. For several years, in his radio program “You Can’t Educate to Love,” Dima Zitser has been answering questions from a variety of listeners about school, education, and relationships between children and adults. From these conversations this book was born. In this issue: how to improve relationships with loved ones? How can we ensure that studying does not turn into hard labor for children and parents? How to help a person in difficult school situations? what to do if a person is being bullied? how to behave if your child doesn’t want to go to school and if he can’t concentrate on his homework?