"Whoever loves, that did not get to know God, because God is love". This line from the Apostolic message became epigraph to the book, written with Andrey Лоргусом - Orthodox priest, practicing a psychologist, chancellor of Institute of christian psychology, - and by his colleague by Olga Красниковой. But does do a man any возвышеннее love of man to the woman and woman to the man? Yes, she can be inspired and elevated. Do authors tell to us about that, do the secrets of internal "enemies" of love consist in what, in what their weak points| it is possible to teach the heart to love?