Communicating with children is always difficult. If built incorrectly, it creates many problems: from misunderstanding to active opposition. And then children and parents move away from each other, and the upbringing process does not bring the desired results. How to talk to a child to be heard? How to understand what can be allowed and what should be prohibited? How to make relationships trusting and open while maintaining parental authority? How to motivate a child to set goals and achieve success? How to reveal talent and direct vigorous childhood energy in the right direction? Nina Vitalievna Zvereva, a famous business coach, producer, television journalist, writer, as well as a loving mother and grandmother, offers simple and effective rules for communicating with children to all concerned parents. This useful and very sincere book contains few quotes and statistics, but many fascinating stories, good advice and invaluable personal experience of a person whose children, thanks to proper upbringing, achieved excellent results in life.