We all dream of meeting that one person who can love the entire cosmos we have imagined: habits, preferences and dreams along with us to boot. Where the idea comes from that someone will love all our shortcomings is unclear, however, we don’t want to change, and it’s difficult: we love as much as we can, we are looking for a soul mate destined from above, but we leave much less room for it in our world than for ourselves for our beloved. We make plans, dream of a future in which we ourselves are the center of the personal Universe, but we do not want to depend in any way on anyone else’s preferences and desires. Can we be happy in the grip of such circumstances? Sometimes yes, more often no. Nevertheless, life goes on. Contains obscene language.