In the recent report of the Child's fund of the UNO the Dutch children are adopted by the happiest in the world. Why? Authors of book American of Рина Мэй Акоста and englishwoman Мишель Хатчисон, marrying for Dutchmen and above-ground in Netherlands, give the detailed answer for this question. Dutchmen managed to obtain balance between work and life : their country leads in Europe on underemployment, they work on the average for twenty nine hours in a week, conducting at least one day with native and finding time for itself. Being people conservative enough, in education Dutchmen adhere to the traditional domestic values, complementing them respect both to personality of child and to personality of mother life of that does not close with birth of kid. Fathers play a considerable role the care of children, and mothers do not compete with each other in that, who anymore inlaid in the child, - and, accordingly, does not suffer so widespread complex "Maternal guilt".