Young parents run into a necessity to accept numberless decisions about that, how to care of the kid by the best character, and, naturally, seek advice to the friends and native, that grew the children already. But scientists discover all more often, that came time carefully to revise many "good" advices passed from a generation in a generation. Is it needed to train new-born to sleep in loneliness? Why is the pectoral rearing better than artificial? Is it needed to give to the child to cry, before to take him on hands? Is it how really important for healthy development of child to speak with him and sing ditties to him? How really do styles of education form personality and character from the moment of birth? And how we must see to the babies that can not say about the necessities?Author of the real book, scientist-anthropologist, attentively studying paternal behavior in different cultures, set by these important questions, and her answers sometimes appear not simply unexpected, but also able fully to change our going near caring about kids.