One day, journalists came to visit an old woman who was one hundred years old. It was in Ukraine. A tiny old woman, who already has great-great-grandchildren, who survived the war, famine and all the consequences of the collapse of the USSR. Journalists asked what she remembered most of all during these hundred years of eventful events. The old woman burst into tears and answered: “If I see a man. You know, what a bіl!”. (“When my husband left me. You know what a pain it is!”) But her husband left her with her children 60 years ago!Parting with a loved one is one of the most difficult situations in our life. Moreover, suffering condemns us to loneliness. And we can suffer, as the example of this grandmother shows, for an unlimited time. Do not hope that the pain will go away on its own or time will cure it. Our healing is in our hands. Who will help us?Unlike a bodily illness, one cannot put oneself into the hands of doctors who will make an accurate diagnosis and prescribe pills and injections. The main part of the work here will have to be done by yourself. And we are talking about something invisible. And the pain is stronger than the physical ...