Modern marriage is a structure being, from one side, in the making| from other - in the process of disintegration.We entered in the period of personality choice. Everybody is free to choose independently, not leaning against public opinion, traditions, and frequently and on opinion of dad and mother. Thus and responsibility will be to carry. Responsibility for the choice of wife (husband), for integrity of family, for education of children. And the world personal to responsibility is the world difficult, intimidating, especially for those, whoever has before eyes an example of responsible behavior from the side of senior generations. On the other hand, only the world of the personal responsibility can create and more perfect, and prepotent personality. Question only, how to do it? While there are not the clearly folded system and even idea about that, how to prepare young people to future domestic life. And to prepare to domestic life it is necessary! In fact the most future married couples grow now in incomplete families, therefore to full age they do not have examples of paternal love and patience on attitude toward each other.Family today is an enormous problem. Families break a secret, collapse cruelly, carelessly on main - children. All are busy at the searches of the absolute and final happiness, changing partners and partners in passing, destroying everything on the way. Ljubov still above all sense of marriage. How to understand feelings, how to grow them, how to save?A way to the answer for these questions can help to find logotherapy, studies founded and worked out by the prominent Austrian neurologist by Victor Франклом.Берта Ландау, as practicing логотерапевт, examines the problems of family, analysing vital situations and decisions that lead families to the collapse or revival.