Two important problems of modern family are examined in a book. First is a "load of responsibility" for planning and co-ordination of housekeeping, that "invisible" work that fully lies down on the shoulders of woman. The second is "combination", search of balance between administration of house and construction of career. The double loading entails serious consequences: complications in the relations of the married couples, depression, anxiety, exhaustion, weakening of memory. A journalist Samantha Вильяр, leaning against own experience and experience of other families, formulates reasons, describes the different displays of these problems and offers their solution. To see a "invisible" burden and divide him with a partner is a primary task in family.A book is addressed to the widest reader audience. Her it is important to read to not only the women that know itself in plots but also those, who gathers only to become a mother, and also to their partners and near.