History of young family of Грачевых from Serpukhov of the Moscow suburbs shocked a country in December, 2017 and became one of the most resonant illustrations of domestic violence. Details seem the thought of or written scenario writers of films of horrors, but all happened actually. Dmitry Грачев, suspecting a wife and mother of the little sons in treason, drove her in the forest and chopped off both hands. Doctors were able to save one brush to Margaret, instead of the second now modern prosthetic appliance, money on that collected due to not indifferent people.Why does not convict Грачев consider itself guilty? How does Rita live now and will turn out for her to forget that happened to her? How to outlive domestic violence and find forces to live farther and happy to live? It is not "necessary to spare itself. It is necessary to take life in the hands, even if only one hand", - the author of book talks and on an own example proves that it maybe.