Each of us it is desirable to live the happy and quiet life deprived alarms and problems. But something interferes with us. After external prosperity we hide fear, alarm, anxiety often. We are displeased at itself or near, we quarrel, offended, suffer. At times we hardly understand reasons of what be going on with us. What is the basis of our behavior, reactions and experiencing? Does our childhood can to be reason of problems of adult life? How to understand the "internal child"? Answers for these and other questions a reader will find in the offered book written with a psychologist and psychotherapist by Natalia Ининой, that on the basis of vast consultative practice evidently and thinly shows the role of childhood in our adult life.