Is anybody from your native patient with alcoholism or drug addiction? Maybe, are you the grandchild of the already dead grand-dad that suffered one of these ailments? you or your friend married after an alcoholic or drug addict? Remaining in close relations with a patient, we are emotionally engaged in his problems. This book is sanctified to dependence and созависимости - to the destructive psychological state of family of patient members. In her the program of overcoming of созависимости is presented, that opens a way to the new relations in family, protects children from appearance for them dependences.