If you feel that love has passed and the relationship has become strained, this is not yet a reason to plan a divorce or indulge in all serious things, says psychotherapist Eva-Maria Zurhorst, popular in Germany and all over the world. First, try to honestly and objectively assess what you (and not your parents, society or friends) really expect from this relationship, and tell your partner about your aspirations. From the book “Love Yourself... No Matter Who You're Married to” you will learn what prevents you from living happily with your chosen partner, how to stop making the same mistakes in relationships and why the search for an ideal partner is fruitless until you love yourself himself. Based on personal experience, as well as on the experience of thousands of couples whom the author has already helped.