“Until you love yourself, no one will.” Everyone knows this phrase, but its power, unfortunately, is downplayed in real life, and in vain - as it turned out in my personal example. But where would we be without our rake? After ten years of marriage, I realized that I stopped liking myself the way I became next to my husband. And this is painful and difficult. Accept. It would have been easier, of course, to blame everything on the asshole husband, but no. Everything is much deeper. This book is for those who tried to satisfy the need for love with the help of marriage and could not do this, who forgot about themselves and lost the ability to value themselves, who endure because they do not believe in a happy life outside of relationships and believe that happiness is being with someone.