How many times have you said the words “It’s not my fault!”? How about hearing them? Sometimes it really isn't your fault. But constantly denying your guilt can become a dangerous trap, preventing you from living the life you want to live. The book will help shift attention from uncontrolled processes to controlled ones. Then your real life will begin! How many times a day do you hear this phrase? How about pronouncing it? The most common excuse. Sometimes that’s just how it is—it’s not your fault. But the authors show that this phrase can trap you in living the life you want to live. The subordinate blames the boss for being forced to do a job he hates. A teenager blames McDonald's for his figure... Yes, whatever! There is no more figure! And now it seems to a person that no amount of effort can make his life better. But if we look more closely, we will see how to turn evil into good. And for this, eight principles will come in handy that will help you make the right decisions and finally get what you want from relationships with people and life in general. So, if you think that people are not treating you fairly, what nature has deprived you of the data you need, that circumstances are always against you - it doesn’t matter. The book will help you shift your attention from processes that you cannot control to processes that you have control over. And then life will begin! The book is dedicated to those who are still wandering in the world of accusations and justifications, but want to become the master of their lives. I wish you victory in this difficult struggle. May your dreams come true. God bless you!