As a rule, those who advise someone to “come down to earth” have a poor understanding of both the process itself and its consequences. You should try for yourself what it’s like to be a retired pilot who received, in addition to the end of his service, a foreign country, which, apparently, is destined to become a new homeland... a position for which you did not aspire, but which you have to accept with all the duties and responsibilities arising from it... a family that you never had and whose interests you have to force circumstances should be taken into account along with your own... And what do you order to do now? Accept the rules of the game or change them? Should you dance to someone else's tune or try to make your own? To the delight of new relatives, to become a good girl or to carry out special assignments?..