A #1 bestseller in Israel, the book shows parents how to teach their children to be strong and independent by seeing the world through their children's eyes and feeling it through their hearts. A wise, kind and warm book, a ray of light and support for every parent who sees their main task as raising a happy person. Not obedient, successful and meeting someone’s expectations, but independent, purposeful, capable of being responsible for his actions. This does not require special skills. It is important to understand children, to try to look at the world through their eyes. Thanks to this book, you will learn to perceive your children as independent people, and not as an extension of your personality or your own calling card. It will help you be more patient, remain calm in an era of high expectations and the anxiety they cause, and also value and accept each child as an individual - with their quirks and shortcomings. Einat Nathan, a mother of five children and a parenting consultant in her own clinic, touches on the most various topics of concern to parents: parental anxiety, children's tantrums, co-sleeping, gadgets and social networks, first grade, homework, sex education, stillbirth, autism, bullying and bullying. This book is not only a guide to raising children, but also an exploration of complex emotional parent path. It will remind you of how much courage this path requires, and that no parent is perfect.