The book examines two important problems of the modern family. The first is the “burden of responsibility” for planning and coordinating the household, that “invisible” work that falls entirely on the shoulders of the woman. The second is “combination”, finding a balance between home administration and career building. The double burden entails serious consequences: difficulties in the relationship between spouses, depression, anxiety, exhaustion or weakening of memory. Journalist Samantha Villar, drawing on her own experience and the experience of other families, formulates the reasons, describes the various manifestations of these problems and offers their solutions. Seeing the “invisible” burden and sharing it with a partner is the primary task in the family. The book is addressed to the widest readership. It is important to read not only for women who recognize themselves in the plots, but also for those who are just about to become a mother, as well as their partners and loved ones.