How often are you frank? How often do you talk about your feelings? And in general, do you think this is necessary? The main character believed that there was no need to say the obvious out loud. And I got burned by this. For 4 years she didn’t show how she felt, for 4 years she tried to “cool down” and forget, but everything was fine. Until that fateful “night of revelations.” What she learned gnawed at her for a long time, but then she clearly understood that speaking directly was vitally important, that it would be easier to live this way. And although she walked towards honesty for years, that night the first seed was sown, which later bore fruit.