Here is the first part of the bestseller “Stop raising children - help them grow” by Zaryana and Nina Nekrasov, mother and daughter, authors of popular books about child development, about relationships between adults and children. The authors share the secrets of non-parenting: how to help a child grow, both physically and spiritually, and grow with him - as a parent. Here it is important to learn just one secret: children do not need you to “give them the best years of your life” and rest your whole life on them. The only thing they really need from you is your unconditional love. What it is and why it is so important, how to manifest it and how it differs from just love - they talk about this in this part of the book and the new chapter - the appendix.