If you grew up in a patriarchal family, if your husband believed all your life that “a wife should,” then when you find yourself in a new world, even more patriarchal than your own, will you change? Does this make sense? What, in general, can change a woman, soft and timid in character, accustomed to obeying the head of the family? It would seem - obey your husband, and everything will be fine! And if it’s bad, then it’s your own fault!