Why do we not always succeed to find a common language with the near, by beloveds, friends, colleagues? An answer is simple: at each of us the picture of the world, type of thinking and temperament. The studies of Эннеаграммы, that the spiritual and psychological conceptions tested by eyelids are the basis of, assert that all people are subdivided into nine basic types. To harmonize relations and life on the whole, it is enough to understand reasons, motive stranger acts and behavior, and to learn to understand itself and work on the personality height.