What do you really want when you have sex? More specifically: what are your deepest sexual fantasies? Justin J. Lehmiller, an American expert on human sexuality, conducted an unprecedented, largest scientific study of sexual fantasies to date. Before you decide in advance that something is wrong with you, breathe out: you are not the only one who experiences these desires. Most likely, what you dream about may also be the fantasies of your friends, acquaintances and (although it’s scary to think about) parents. You shouldn’t run away from them. This book will help you learn to accept fantasies as an integral part of your life, in addition, you will learn: - which desires are considered unusual and which are rare; – why men’s sexual fantasies are different from women’s, what it depends on; – what fantasies should be shared with a partner and how to do it in a safe way; – how the embodiment of your most secret fantasies affects future relationships; – 4 lessons about sex and love that will break your barriers to new experiences.