A book can be used by a reader as a manual for a reflection, self-examination, forming of ideas about the future. She is written in an enthralling and accessible form and has a practical, theoretical and explaining orientation.A book is intended first of all to those, who wants maximally to use the resources of own personality, valuably and fruitfully to intermingle with other people and obtain personal and professional success. Those, who actively aims to attain the happiness and be in his space. She will be especially interesting to the people, that do important elections in the life, fate. And also to the psychotherapists, consultants, psychologists, коучам, development workers, psychiatrists, doctors, teachers, students. It is a book for people, families, groups interested in self-examination and acceptance of new decisions in lives.Psychological knowledge and use of them in everyday practice promote our emotional intellect, realized, our psychological literacy. Psychological literacy is this ability to put aims and achieve success, commonunication collision-free, prophylaxis of crises and stresses, understanding itself and desires, self-realization, deserving and comfort life.The approach realized by us was formed from therapeutic and consultative practice under influence of humanistic and existential psychology, first of all classic транзактного analysis. We avoid difficult terminology. And we aspire to that exposition was clear to the people without the special education. The great number of exercises is offered in text. They are distinguished by the special type. They can be done independently or with a partner. Doing exercises and discussing their results, you promote effectiveness of your self-knowledge, realized, success and, in the end, level and stability in experiencing of happiness.Аut viam inveniam, aut faciam - or I will find a road, or I will lay her (lat.).Edition 3th, processed and complemented.