“This book was written and published in 1980, when my son Paata, to whom I confessed, turned 16 years old. I offer it to you almost unchanged, except for editorial changes and the table of contents of individual parts. But you will be interested , what is he - my son - like today and whether our views on education have changed. For this purpose, I found it possible to give you information as “additional pages” that are located in the text. Thank you for opening this book. I would be glad if she will help you in raising your own children. You have a great romance in front of you. I wish you good luck.”