This book is written for all women, but not for all men. Those men who are not ready to part with cozy ones - for them, of course! - patriarchal ideas, they will be scared, angry and will try to hide her away from their wives, girlfriends and daughters. Ute Erhardt, a German psychologist with many years of practice, is trying to destroy the “immutable” rules of female behavior - and does this extremely decisively. Her ideas at first surprise and even shock, but then they certainly force you to look at your life from the other side. And this is the first step towards freedom, which is not available to “good girls.”