Many parents have heard that a child must be loved unconditionally. But nevertheless, they are worried about the question: “What about education? If a child loves everyone, he will sit on his neck and grow up to be an egoist who believes that everything is allowed to him.” We are often thrown from one extreme to another. Depending on the chosen parenting style, parents either keep a tight rein on their children or raise them according to the principle “as long as the child is happy and doesn’t cry.” In both cases, problems are inevitable. The child either runs the risk of growing up lacking initiative, phlegmatic, and intimidated. Or - capricious, aggressive, not recognizing the authority of parents. What to do? How to find that golden mean? The author of the book shares with you his experience of parenting, tells you how to overcome incorrect attitudes, avoid common mistakes in parenting and become wonderful parents of a happy baby.