“… Almost all relational psychotherapy unfolds at the same point. There is a cannibal and an ordinary person. The cannibal wants to fall in love with the ordinary one and then eat it. And the ordinary one just wants to fall in love with the cannibal. And then an ordinary person comes to psychotherapy: "Doctor, how can I explain to him not to eat me?" So, all psychotherapy usually occurs at the point where an ordinary person (not a cannibal) painfully comes to understand that the cannibal eats meat, and not explanations ... "