Once in preschool of city of Saransk prepared a new-year morning performance, and a nursery governess wrote the list of roles. Text was laconic: girls are asterisks and snowflakes, and "boys all clowns". Announcement got in the Internet, and when I saw him, I was visited by recovery of sight. I suddenly realized the system of gender relations, that all about that boys are funny придурки, and girls, - it many the gauze and spangle. And to me first in life it wanted to think about men seriously, about their problems, fears and hopes. About that for what we love them and hate. About kinds and types - from whom it is needed to hurry, and with whom it is needed to make an effort. About that we do with them and with our love. And about that they do with us are funny, foolish, tender, disgusting, of genius, confused and magnificent men.